Hello Nico,
thank you for your application, of course we'll be happy to have you join us!
Regarding people mentioning their bans, well, the question is simply an opportunity for players to be honest about (or to justify) recent bans, since its usually fairly easy to find out whether they've actually been banned somewhere regardless.
I am a big fan of Stardew Valley, too! But the last time I played was ages ago, and I don't think the massively delayed Multiplayer will bring back many people to the game, sadly. But the game always reminded me of the relaxed side of Minecraft, which sometimes gets a bit forgotten in modded. Anyway, sorry for the rambling.
You're white-listed, see you around!